KEYS to Living Well (Dharma Words I)
Book Specification
Item Code: | NAN913 |
Author: | Venerable Miao His and Cherry Lai |
Publisher: | Buddha Light Art and Living Pvt Ltd |
Language: | English |
Edition: | 2005 |
ISBN: | 9789382017189 |
Pages: | 257 |
Cover: | Paperback |
Other Details | 8.5 inch X 5.5 inch |
Weight | 300 gm |
Book Description
A selection of translated articles that Venerable Master Hsing Yun originally wrote for a special column in The Merit Times, Key to Living Well represents the launching of a new vehicle for transmitting the Dharma.
Arranged in an accessible style, this selection addresses moral, spiritual and social questions that are central to our day-to-day existence. Whether it is a matter of cherishing our good fortune with humility or cultivating tolerance for others, Venerable Master Hsing Yun imparts his wisdom in a pithy and unambiguous manner. Like a diagnosis that precisely identifies a malady and a prescription that effectively cures it, each chapter in Key to Living Well penetrates the core of problems we all encounter in life, while offering us effective solutions to overcome them.
Through maxims on ethics, mottoes for conduct, and injuctions against transgressions, Key to Living Well provides us direct access to the wisdom of the Dharma, equipping us with the means to handle all kinds of situations in life. As such, it serves as a useful manual for one conduct, because after all as Venerable Master Hsing Yun puts it, “Rivers need the proper channel to flow into the ocean. Our lives require maxims to tread on the right path.”
There are many books and seminars dedicated to giving instruction about how to plan and manage our daily lives. These approaches usually attempt to provide very basic practical suggestions for using time. In the present volume Venerable Master Hsing Yun shares lectures from past presentations as well as new thoughts on his insights about how to plan and live with all the pressures of modern life. He has an approach that is quite different from the many so-called “self help” materials. While it is important to learn certain tasks that save time and make us more efficient, Master Hsing Yun urges people to understand that it is more than rules and ploys that help with planning. The true strategy for dealing with life starts with the understanding that each person has regarding themselves, their situation, and the nature of thought and action. This understanding, from the Buddhist point of view, is necessary for successful change of old habit energy. Unless there are fundamental and insightful developments within our thinking and comprehension, we cannot expect to shift old patterns and permanently leave them behind us. It is this belief that leads Master Hsing Yun to prize learning and commitment to practice as well as to continual striving that leads to transformations of mind and thought.
This volume is filled with very detailed explanations about issues that occupy us from the moment we awake in the morning until the last conscious moment before sleep. The explanations help to frame the problems that are found at every level of activity, whether it is in private or public domains. Having clearly defined the experiences of living, Master Hsing Yun goes on to give concrete advice about how to focus one’s thought and avoid the confusion of a mind that is scattered among the many matters that complete for our attention. It is the Buddhist ideal of concentrated attention that can be a solution to all of us who live and work in the world of freeways, computer, telephones, radios, faxes, email, and encounters with other people. While the external environment can be chaotic and demanding, it is possible for individuals to practice concentration, which permits purposeful action. Mere rules and programming methods of dealing with problems can never solve the complex constantly changing situations in which we find ourselves. Every moment brings a new assault on our sensory domain, new unexpected matters sweep across our mental and physical horizons. Methods that are built on the assumption that there are a limited set of variables, fail miserably in a world that exhibits flux and flow of constant change. It is impossible to create a list of items that can be guaranteed t solve any potential problem in the future. Master Hsing Yun tells his audiences that only when one has created a mind that is flexible and concentrated can we hope to cope with the rush and force of every moment.
Achieving the state of being calm and composed in the face of any event can come from long and continued efforts of focused thought and exposure to the teachings of Buddhist sages. It is in this manner that the Buddhist community becomes an important part of life. Through the community, Buddhists receive support in the form of teaching and practice. One of the facets of Humanistic Buddhism is to take the principles of the teaching and apply them to the world around us. While there is need for inner development, concentrated thought, and calmness of spirit, the outer expression of the wisdom gained must find its place among others.
All of this, and more, is given in the elegant teaching style of the Master. He leads us from one perspective to another in understandable and challenging ways. For any individual who wants to have more control time, work, and obligations, this volume offers a deep and long-lasting solution.
PREFACE | i | ONE DAY TO A LIFETIME | 1 | A DAY'S LIFE | 4 | BEGINNINGS | 6 | HOW TO MANAGE OURSELVES | 9 | LIFE'S DRIVING FORCES | 11 | THE FOUR MINDS IN LIFE | 13 | THE FUNDAMENTALS OF BEING HUMAN | 15 | HOW TO BENEFIT OURSELVES | 17 | THE WONDERFUL WAYS OF KEEPING BUSY | 20 | THE USE OF "ONE" | 22 | BETWEEN SELF AND OTHERS | 25 | HOW TO GET ALONG IN A GROUP | 27 | HOW TO MAKE CONNECTIONS | 30 | HOW TO CONDUCT OURSELVES | 33 | THE FOUR PRINCIPLES OF LIFE | 36 | SIX SECRETS TO GETTING ALONG | 38 | STANDARDS FOR HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS | 41 | THE WAY OF DEALING WITH THE WORLD | 43 | PRESCRIPTION FOR TREATING OTHERS | 45 | FACING THE WORLD WITHOUT RESENTMENT | 47 | LIFE THROUGH THE MIRROR | 49 | LIFE'S FOUR "MOSTS" | 51 | THE FOUR NECESSITIES OF LIFE | 54 | LIFE'S MAXIMS | 56 | LIFE Is LIKE DRIVING A CAR | 58 | THE WORRIES OF LIFE | 61 | A HAPPY LIFE | 64 | A BRIGHT LIFE | 66 | HARMONY THROUGH ADAPTING TO SITUATIONS | 68 | FORTUNE AND MISFORTUNE | 70 | PHILOSOPHY OF LIFE | 72 | WISDOM IN HANDLING MATTERS | 75 | THE KEY TO DEALING WITH TASKS | 78 | FLAWS IN DEALING WITH OTHERS | 80 | THE FOUR DIFFICULTIES IN LIFE | 82 | MATTERS OF PROPRIETY | 85 | FUNDAMETALS | 88 | THINGS TO AVOID IN LIFE | 90 | THE FOUR DON'TS IN CONDUCTING OURSELVES | 93 | FOUR THINGS TO GUARD AGAINST | 96 | LEADERSHIP | 99 | LEADING PEOPLE | 101 | ASSESSING OTHERS | 104 | HOW TO VIEW PEOPLE | 106 | HOW TO WORK WITH PEOPLE | 108 | FOUR KEYS TO TREATING OTHERS | 110 | HOW TO TREAT PEOPLE POSITIVELY | 112 | THE WAY OF TREATING GUESTS | 114 | CULTIVATION IN TREATING PEOPLE | 116 | THE FOUR DON'TS IN TREATING PEOPLE | 119 | THE WAY TO BEING CAREFREE | 122 | LOOK BACK AND THINK | 124 | BE MINDFUL OF WHAT LIES AHEAD | 126 | LEARNING FROM THE WISE AND CAPABLE | 129 | THE STATE OF THE VIRTUOUS SAGES | 131 | A NOBLE CHARACTER | 133 | HOW TO SHOULDER RESPONSIBILITY | 136 | CHARACTER BUILDING | 138 | FOUR KINDS OF MIND | 140 | HOW TO SPEAK | 142 | LEVELS OF PEOPLE | 144 | GRADING OURSELVES | 146 | PEOPLE ARE LIKE HORSES | 148 | POVERTY AND WEALTH | 150 | POOR AND RICH, HONORED AND DESPISED | 152 | THE MAJOR PROBLEMS OF BEING HUMAN | 155 | THE MOST FEARFUL | 157 | IHE IMPERFECTIONS OF LIFE | 160 | To OBEY AND FOLLOW | 162 | GOOD CAUSES AND CONDITIONS | 164 | KNOWING OURSELVES | 167 | PRESCRIPTION FOR CALMING MINDS | 169 | To BE HONEST AND RIGHTEOUS | 171 | WISE AND COURAGEOUS PEOPLE | 173 | THE ABILITY TO Know PEOPLE | 175 | How TO EVALUATE PEOPLE | 177 | KNOWING PEOPLE | 179 | BEING INSPIRED | 181 | CHERISH OUR FORTUNE | 183 | KEYS TO LIVING WELL | 185 | THE WAY TO CULTIVATE | 187 | FOUR WAYS OF TEACHING | 189 | REPAYING FOUR DEBTS OF GRATITUDE | 192 | REMAINING UNMOVED BY SUCCESS OR FAILURE | 195 | THE WAY OF ESTABLISHING OURSELVES | 197 | EQUALITY AND FAIRNESS | 199 | FOUR WAYS OF TEACHING | 189 | REPAYING FOUR DEBTS OF GRATITUDE | 192 | REMAINING UNMOVED BY SUCCESS OR FAILURE | 195 | THE WAY OF ESTABLISHING OURSELVES | 197 | EQUALITY AND FAIRNESS | 199 | ON KNOWLEDGE | 202 | THE WAY OF TOLERANCE | 204 | MERITS OF GIVING | 207 | ACCEPTING AND FORGIVING | 210 | WHAT Is CHAN? | 212 | THE WORLD OF CHAN | 214 | DEALING WITH MATTERS WITH A CHAN MIND | 216 | THE FOUR MOST SUPREME DHARMAS | 219 | DEVELOPING OURSELVES | 223 | DEVELOPING POTENTIAL | 225 | MOTTOES FOR FACING THE WORLD | 227 | CONNECTING ALL WITH ONE | 229 |